Medicine Lodge High School

Medicine Lodge, Kansas

Teacher:  Devra Parker  

Family Matters

By Jenna Rice

12th grade

 

          With tears rolling down her face, the young girl lays in her pale, jail-like bed. This small four-year-old child tries desperately to go to sleep and make this horrific condition go away.  As she begins to drift off to sleep, she suddenly squints open her eyes at the sound of the door, slamming shut.  The little blonde-headed schoolgirl looks in the darkness of her room and sees everything in a new perspective; the clown that she had loved so much just hours before now looks more like a frightening creature, and at every sound in the house, she jumps in terror.  Out of the blackness her scratched white door creeps open just enough to see the light from the hall and a black figure standing at her door.  The boyish figure looks at the innocent child curled up in a ball as to protect herself and crawls over to her.  When her brother reaches her, he simply puts his arms around the demoiselle and hugs her; without saying a word, he pulls the white pillow from the bed and sleeps on the newly refinished hard wood floor.

            The night that her parents separated, which led to their divorce, is a deep-seeded hurt that she will forever remember.  This young girl is me, and although I survived this moment of fear and love both of my parents very much, there are plenty of kids who have experienced what I did and have not turned out all right.  Government regulation concerning family matters seems to be on a smooth track, although I feel as though there are weaknesses with the strengths.

            Divorce has become an everyday occurrence.  Instead of being shocked and appalled by a couple separating, we feel as though it is okay because everyone else does it.  Something needs to be done.  We must have a better excuse for getting a divorce than simply incompatibility.  Too many children come from broken homes, and learn that marriage is not a sacred bond and that they can get out at any time.  Why are there not laws that say couples must go to counseling and then let the counselor determine whether it will work or not?  The government must put stronger restrictions on getting a divorce; otherwise, the children of divorced parents will get married themselves, and this awful cycle will continue with their families.

            Being raised by my father since I was ten years old, I have a different opinion of who children should live with and how alimony works.  Why is it automatically assumed that the children would be better off living with the mother?  Fathers are just as much a part of a child’s life as the mother is.  A special connection between a father and his children is sacred and should never be taken away from anyone.  Too many fathers believe that there is no chance of getting full custody over their children, so they just give up.  Our government must do something to prove to fathers that they do believe they are fit parents. 

            When it comes to alimony, it is assumed that the father will give his children to the mother and then pay alimony.  It is a sad situation when a woman does not even have to work because she can just live off of the alimony that her ex-husband sends her.  Charles Mayfield has been divorced for 11 years; he has remarried and has a newborn on the way.  Why must he work long hour shifts and never get any sleep?  He is trying to support two families, when his ex-wife does not even have a job!  Something must be done to get this changed.  Our government must look at every case individually and determine what needs to be done based on each family. We cannot afford to  put every family into one category. 

            Many regulations the government has are successful, such as the fact that they will not allow a child to live in an abusive home.  Our government has done everything in it’s power to make families work.  There is absolutely no reason for a child to be beat.  Once a person says that he feels as though a child might be getting abused, the government sends a social worker.  Thus person makes sure everything is all right.  If a child is being beat, he/she does everything within his/her power to change that, and if there is nothing that can be done, he/she will send the child to a foster home.

            Foster care is another strength in our government’s role in the family.  It is an amazing program that we have in America.  Places such as foster care are a blessing.  It is never a child’s fault that he/she is being beat.  It is absolutely remarkable for there to be places for children to go when this horrific event happens.  Although foster homes are never the greatest adventure of a child’s life, it is a necessity to have homes such as these in our society.

            Another great regulation that the government has for the American family is the tax break.  Parents with more children have to send a less amount of money to the government by the tax break. The government is aware that the more children one has, the more money he/she is going to spend on raising and teaching them to be admirable Americans.  It is an extreme relief to parents of five children that they will not be penalized for having that many children. 

            Government regulation within the family is desperately needed for this great country to work.  We need rules and regulations to make this country function.  The cost of government regulation is not always determined by dollar signs.  The cost of the child’s mentality after being put through a foster home is an enormous gamble.  So many people’s mentalities at risk; the director of the foster home, the parents after their child is taken away, and the family of the child who is being put in such a facility.  Most of all, the cost of how society will treat such individuals once they are on their own does exist.  I believe society, in general, should decide what is over-regulation.  Let the people who actually have to live with these regulations decide.  Congress is made up of people who are very prestigious.  Why don’t we let middle-class people make decisions such as these?  Congress is right on track with their government regulations.  They have their strengths and their weaknesses and that is common.  Overall, I am happy with the government regulations in my life.

Q1:  What is the only way to prevent hijackers from gaining control of an airplane according to the unknown author?

 

A:  The only way to prevent hijackers from gaining control of an airplane is to harden the cockpit.

 

Q2:  What are the arguments given by lobbyists for the Bells in favor of HR 1542 (Tauzin-Dingell Bill) and arguments given by their opponents against this legislation?

 

A:  The lobbyists argue that it’s members need regulatory relief to compete with cable television companies and other high-speed Internet providers.  The opponents contend that the Tauzin-Dingell bill would give the Bells a stranglehold on high-speed Internet service and delay the development of next-generation Web technology.

 

Q3:  Why do small-business groups like HR 1831?  From the small amount of information presented in your required reading, do you think the legislation is a good idea?  Why?

 

A:  The bill would protect businesses that discard less than 110 gallons of liquid waste or less than 200 pounds of solid, non-hazardous waste at a superfund site.  It would also apply to small businesses that dump ordinary garbage in a landfill that later is designated a superfund site.  I agree with the legislation is a good idea, it will protect the businesses that have not significantly harmed the environment from being sued by large polluters that want to recover some of their government-mandated cleanup costs.

 

Q4:  Give an argument in favor of government regulating activities such as rollerblading and bungee-jumping.

 

A:  Many young adults as well as children do not take proper safety precautions.  If the government feels that this is the only way to make the streets safe then they must do what must be done.

 

Q5:  Define a “burden hour.”

 

A:  A burden hour is supposed to measure the time it takes to collect data and fill out federal forms, surveys, and reports.

 

Q6:  Why was Connecticut Senator, Joseph Lieberman, concerned enough to vote against the nomination of Professor John Graham as administrator of the office of Information and Regulatory Affairs in the current Bush administration?

 

A:  Lieberman believed that Graham would weaken federal health, environmental and safety standards.

 

Q6a:  Graham is a proponent of “risk analysis.”  How is risk analysis defined on page 992 of the May 5, 2001 issue of Congressional Quarterly Weekly?

 

A:  Risk analysis calculates the likelihood of a hazard against the costs and benefits of preventing it.

 

Q6b:  Who was the first president to order federal agencies to weigh potential costs and benefits when writing a rule?

 

A:  The first president to order federal agencies to weigh potential costs and benefits when writing a rule was Jimmy Carter.

 

Q6c:  How much would compliance with OSHA’s regulations to limit injuries or disabilities from performing repetitive tasks cost according to an estimate by business groups as reported in the 2000 CQ Almanac?  What was the response of OSHA and Labor Department officials?

 

A:  The 2000 CQ Almanac says it will cost anywhere from $14 billion to $80 billion a year.  OSHA and Labor Department officials say that while costing employers $4.2 billion annually, they say, it would also save them $9 billion a year in lost productivity.

 

Q7:  What was the makeup of the “iron triangle” during the Reagan years and what do environmentalists and consumer activists foresee as its composition in the current Bush administration?

 

A:  The “iron triangle” is an unbreakable alliance among Democratic committee chairmen, agency officials and interest groups that worked in concert to achieve common goals, whether it was funding for special projects or protecting specific constituencies.  Environmentalists and consumer activists say they fear the formation of a new triad—composed of industry officials, the White House and GOP committee chairmen—that leaves them out of the equation.

 

Q8:  Name 5 actions of the Bush administration that have drawn criticism from Environmentalists.

 

A:  Bush denied a campaign pledge to regulate carbon dioxide and rejected the Kyoto Protocol on global warning.  He also reversed a Clinton rule to reduce the levels of arsenic in drinking water.  Bush may let timber companies destroy the nation’s forests.  The Department of Agriculture proposed a decision that would have ended testing of school lunchmeat for salmonella.

 

Q9:  What did the executive order issued by Ronald Reagan in 1981 and still in effect today, require agencies to prove before new regulations were enacted?  How did the Democratic House counter in 1986?

 

A:  The order in 1981 required agencies to prove that a regulation’s benefits would “outweigh” its costs—a standard Democrats said was often tough to prove.  In 1986, the Democratic-controlled House forced a showdown by deleing funds for OMB’s regulatory division from the fiscal 1987 budget.

 

Q10:  On average, how long does it take to build an airport?  A highway?

 

A:  The average time to build an airport is 15 years and the average time to build a highway is 12 years.

 

Q11:  Discuss the pros and cons of licensing requirements.

 

A:  The rules and regulations for licensing are shutting down many young people who are trying to earn a few extra dollars.  Monique Landers was a 15 year old who started her own business, I believe that we should recognize her talent and realize that we need more youngsters such as herself in this world.  So many young people do not realize that they can be anything that they want to be in life and they just give up.  If others could see what Monique did, they could do the same for themselves.  On the other hand, the rules and regulations are for the customer’s safety as well.   Many people would be furious if they knew that the person performing a service on them, such as doing hair, was not licensed.  I believe that a person should be licensed to perform a service, but I also think that they should be able to get licensed at any age.

 

Q12:  Discuss the pros and cons of master plans and planning departments.

 

A: The cons of master plans and planning departments include wasting the time and intelligence of those who must take time away from home, business, trade or profession to full out forms and appear before numerous hearings and commissions.  The boards, supervisors, commissions and so on operate in an arbitrary and inconsistent manner. 

            The pros of master plans and planning departments include looking ahead to prevent damage.

 

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