Morality
 

 Submitted by

X’ernona Woods

Community Youth Development Institute
Chicago, Illinois

Subjects taught currently: Grades 9 -12
 Creative Writing, Biology, Anatomy & Physiology, Consumer Economics

The only gift is a portion of you. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

If not me, then who will embrace the heart of the world’s present and future youth?  We should go above and beyond as educators to focus upon each individual’s power and learn to listen with our hearts versus our ears.  When one begins to listen to the concerns of others, we learn the underlying reasons why a person’s potential to live in excellence is blocked; excellence that is reached by living a life that allows the person to capture seemingly impossible “successes.”

The allowance of vulnerability will awaken the infinite possibilities in their lives.  As educators we target the student, but we must realize that we should go to the center of the circumstances.  The target is the caregiver of the pupil.  There are several venues to help enroll people in the vision to live responsibly.  The meaning of living responsible is embracing the opportunity of an ordinary human being do an extraordinary wonder in the lives of students and schools across the nation.

When you view the overall concept of enrolling other people to become role models, one must view their own lives in order to build bridges and fill gaps of involvement with concern, commitment and dedication.  The power that we evolve within our spirit and souls is reflected as a mirror image to the world.  Everyone in the world is a role model whether they are aware or accept it.  Someone is watching you whether you are behaving “good or bad.”  We as humans imitate the next person.  We are all walking advertisements.  Thus allowing people to make a choice, whether or not to buy who we are. It is solely the authority of the person to promote themselves so that people look deeper to excavate the “good” that is seen through heaven’s eyes.

Focusing on a person’s refusal to be a role model will only build an obstruction for a better tomorrow not only in their lives, but within the human race. We will never see the light at the end of a tunnel by trudging through the murky waters of self-doubt.  Through the keen focus upon capacities, inevitably, the human race will experience the cleanliness of each person, saving everyone from the dark and dismal path of selfishness. Ultimately, when we as individuals give to the world, the world gives us more than we can ever fathom.

It is not merely the individual refusal to be a good role model, but the person refusing the opportunity to step into full manifestation of living up to the loving, beautiful, wonderful altruistic people they truly are. The “refusers,” will only teach us how to extend our tentacles of tenderness to those that are in the midst of their own trials and tribulations.  While in the midst, they choose not (respectfully) to look towards innovative ways to help them become powerful within their own right in order to do great wonders in their lives and the lives of others. With the ingredients of commitment, passion and respect one can become motivated to help the “ refuser”; to see the full spectrum of the power that they possess thus allowing them to see the pertinence of not allowing anyone to fail.

We as humans carry a rhythm of care deep within our hearts.  We owe each other the responsibility to honor great moral standards.  Great moral standards will be rewarded by the benevolence of God.  God utilizes us as tools to pull the strength out of each other and to evoke those who once refused to take the torch to become motivated and determined to become catalyst to construct a world with infinite possibilities.

The mere question of “What Do We Do When Adults refuse to be Good Roles Models?” brings to mind the question, “what do we as individuals to inspire the role of being good to mankind?”  The question gives me the inspiration within my spirit to never worry about the “how” when we enroll people in our vision to build a circuit of connected, loving, and caring human beings. Through the implication of sheer desire to build a better tomorrow full of limitless dreams and passions, we can help others reach their full capabilities.

George Washington Carver was a great man who took one peanut and discovered a vast amount of resources from one seemingly useless object. The beauty and essence of peanut was taken to a new plateau, exceeding the gradient. We are the peanuts built with a powerful source to make abundant triumphs. As peanuts, we will be appreciated because we recognized that we are a source of inspiration.  We are human beings who can speak things into existence through faith and belief.  Through acting upon sound mind and judgment bestowed from the omnipotence of God, we can never be steered wrong by acknowledging a higher authority.  Let’s us pray, and ask God for guidance.  Let him remind us of the authority that we have trapped inside of our love that is generated through his heart.  Let us began to praise God for behaving in manner that will show the world.

It is better to be the giver than the receiver. The teacher, who began to share her heart and “put herself on front street,” allowed others to enter her space to comprehend her vulnerability.  It is when we become vulnerable and live outside of society’s ideals we stop worrying about ourselves. As a result, we encourage others to make breakthroughs.  It is duly our responsibility to express the face of tenderness and compassion.  Then, the melodious sound of wholehearted passion, commitment, and respect will reverberate towards everyone.  Building a path for others to follow and to learn by the example of living in excellence, as God intended, supersedes when others hurt us or speak condescendingly or even to those for a moment in time are behaving with dignity or reverence. Let us walk with integrity and respect, exuding love that will copiously drop upon every man woman and child. Let us concentrate upon the adults who refuse for they have the answer to why they are in the slump of life’s circumstances.  The answer to the question “who do we need to be in order for the adults who refuse to surrender and extend a helping heart to everyone” lies within us.  It is a domino affect within our entire society.  If one fails, then you too are a failure.  We are all in a position to water the plant that somehow stopped growing.  But if everyone neglects the plant it will surely die. We can water many plants by enhancing what we all have inside to give: love.

We drop out and cop out, thinking that because we can’t do everything we can’t do anything. ~ Dr. Ernest Fitzgerald

Answers To Questions For Required Reading

Q1—Comment on the 6-year-old with a telescope and his interest in abstract ideas.  How unusual was he?  Have you encountered students with similar focus and reasoning abilities?  Discuss.

My perspective of the six year old was that he was quite enchanting and a profound thinker.  He obviously has embraced his childlike faith and ability to comprehend concepts about life.  He was able to convey his ideas that challenged an adult’s thought process.  The six-year-old interests allowed me to drift into a childlike state of mind that allows acceptance of people for who they are.

Yes, I have experienced students with the capacity to reason and who have a similar focus as a six year old.  One of my students was somehow able to connect how the stars and the atmosphere will be ends to our destruction.

Q2—Were you surprised to read that young children may be “ethically introspective citizens”?  Discuss.

As human beings, the capabilities of man never cease to amaze to me. Our children learn in part by vision, sound and touch. Generally, at birth children are able to differentiate sounds, lights and emotions. Our children are born learning and teaching simultaneously.

Q3—Do you agree that morality can be taught in all kinds of classes.  Give examples from experience.

Morality can be taught and is being learned outside of classrooms each and everyday. The virtue that we reflect to others is being mirrored.  For example, I have taken my students on various field trips.  On this particular excursion, the students and myself were treated quite condescendingly.  Dare I say the person made us blatantly aware that she did not enjoy our presence because of our skin color?  My students became perturbed as well as myself by her disrespectful comments.  Several students desire to engage in a brawl with the young lady.  I immediately gathered my students and told them I too was irritated and that I would handle the issue at hand.  I asked the young lady to step to the side, to converse with her.  I told her that my experience of her was that she was showing an unpleasant disposition, but I saw perhaps she was having a bad day.  I reiterated what she had said and allowed her to analyze her actions towards my class.  She immediately apologized and shared that she was feeling under the weather.  I hugged her and expressed my concern about her health and our tour was pleasant thereafter.  My students could not hear the conversation, but they did experience my heartfelt concern to correct the circumstances and how I didn’t react based from another person’s distorted image about people of color.  The students observed me connecting with the young lady to understand the underlying reason why she was behaving in such a manner.  After a few *minutes, they saw me extend my vulnerability and love.  In their eyes, the tour guide was a stranger.  Yet, to me, she was a person who was handed down the message of hate and was taught this negative image about people of color.  They observed me live by my words.  Everyone needs a hug.

Q4—What was meant by the phrase encountered in you required reading:  “We are all moral witnesses”?  Describe an instance in the classroom when you were a good moral witness.

The statement indicates that human beings in some shape or form are all witnesses to what is occurring in the world.  Mankind is not blind to the facts, truths and lies of the world.  We know more about morality than we claim.  One of the students that were recently in disagreement with another young lady began to open up her heart.  She gave the other young lady her advice in a seemingly difficult situation in spite of the fact they were angry with each other.  She took notice that another person’s problem was bigger than holding a grudge.  She allowed herself to be an effective tool to bring forth a solution.

Q5—Define courage.  Tell of a youngster who has had the courage to stand up for his/her beliefs/values.

Courage is the summation of tapping into a power, strength of mind and spirit of man that you were unaware of possessing.  Courage is the ability to supercede your own capabilities and potential.  Courage is walking by faith and not by sight and to march forward in the darkness with only your inner light to shine forth giving you the vision to see a positive outcome.  Courage is the authority to overcome F.E.A.R. (False Evidence Appearing Real.)

During a discussion about forgiveness, one of my students, whose eye is permanently closed due to a childhood accident caused by her cousin, had a shared a profound experience.  For her entire seventeen years, people who didn’t know or even care to know about her incident only saw the permanent damage.  People had ridiculed her with taunting and belittled her by name-calling.  After the discussion, she forgave her cousin for his actions when he too was only a child.  She learned it was better to forgive than to eat off the “grudge plate”, where one is never satisfied.  I truly believe at the moment she saw her inner beauty and her power to jump hurdles and obstructions that at times occur in life.  It was a wonderful experience to view courage before my very eyes and heart.  She displayed the courage to forgive.

Q6—Comment on the discussion on Courage that took place during a 4th grade history lesson, as outlined in the required reading.  Share an experience where your class spontaneously engaged in a moral analysis.

We witness murder, mayhem, joy and love each and every day we live.  We are observers, actors and actresses, for the world stage as God peers down to view our decisions and indecisions.  We stand in judgment and contentment of our self-value and worth.  We had a discussion about a woman who was murdered because no one called the police after acknowledging her shrills and screams, and viewing her running from her assailant.  This topic grew into a heated discussion whether or not it was the responsibility of citizens and neighbors.  It was a debate that allowed them to envision themselves being murdered while others watch as if it was a prime time movie.  This was a topic, which lead them to analyze what it truly means to love thy neighbor and to treat people how you in turn desire to be treated.  In the beginning, and to my surprise, my students said that they wouldn’t become involved for fear that the assailant would attack them for not minding their business.

Q7—How is a good person described at the end of the required reading involving A Bronx Tale?

The “good person”, is described as a person that is aware of that he or she is not only a catalyst to the moral goodness to themselves but owe a responsibility to others.

Q8—What should a teacher do when she/he sees a student trying to get another student in trouble or somehow disrupting the class?

When I have experienced my students show disruptive behavior, I react by discovering the root cause of the problem and listening to students’ concerns.  Normally, when a child is causing or afflicting pains on another child he or she is the one that is experiencing pain internally.  I have learned whether it is positive or negative, it is overall the attention that the student is diligently seeking.

Q9—The Harry Singer Foundation pilot project, Dream Machine, White Hats and Problem Solvers are based on the premise that students have the capacity to act responsibly, interact with adults in the community and make mature decisions.  In light of the article by Shannon Brownlee regarding the development of the teen brain, do you think the Foundation may be giving teens too much credit?

I believe the foundation is offering youth the responsibility to become moral witnesses.  Engaging students to comprehend circumstances and teaching them to make win/win situations for the growth and development of mankind are accomplishing this task.  It is the opportunity of the students to exceed limits.

Q10—If you think your students are capable, will you engage a group in one of our pilot projects?  If not, why not?

Yes, I will engage my students with a pilot.  I believe and trust their experience will be beneficial and effect how they interact with others by enhancing relationships and creating healthier self-esteem.  They will learn how to resolve conflicts and create a clear definite image that they desire to project for the world and God to admire.

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