1995-1996 Harry Singer Foundation National Essay Contest

Responsibility Who Has It And Who Doesn't
And What That Means For The Nation

Delavan High School, Delavan Illinois

Teacher : Alison J Nelson

 

"'It's not my fault! Don't look at me, you would have done the same thing under my circumstance.'

That seems to be a common problem in the United States today. Few people today will accept the blame for our problems, so nothing seems to be done to solve them. It all boils down to one single word. Responsibility. It is the individual quality each person must have for society to work. Most importantly, responsibility is doing what we know we should do regardless of the personal cost. This is the sense of responsibility that seems to be getting lost. Politicians are trying to cover up mistakes instead of accepting the consequences. Sports stars are getting into trouble with the law, and movie producers are producing morally disgusting movies.

It is not them, however, that are to blame for society's problems. We are the people that elect the politicians and watch the irresponsible sports stars and dirty movies. The problem lies with us, the ordinary individuals.

David and Sharon Shoo of St. Charles, Illinois, were ordinary people. Like most of us, they thought a little nine day trip to Acapulco without the kids would be nice. Their nine and four-year-old kids were left at home with no supervision whatsoever. David and Sharon Shoo were arrested at O'Hare airport and charged with felony abandonment. Shameful. None of us would do anything like that.

Maybe, Maybe not. An English teacher from Chicago's Steimetz High School didn't seem to be much more responsible. In 1994, Steimetz was involved in a regional scholastic competition. Gerald Plecki got a hold of the answers to the questions and gave them to his team. When a team member became upset about this, Plecki told her, 'Everyone cheats; that's the way the world works. You're a fool to play by the rules.' Obviously, even teachers can be bitten by the irresponsible bug.

People everywhere are acting this way. At Walt-Whitman High School, seventeen-year old William Sanders openly admits to cheating regularly with his programmable calculator. In fact, for a a twenty dollar fee, Sanders hooked his calculator to a friend's and used it to give the friend his answers during a test. He's not the only irresponsible student either. A survey for Who's Who Among American High School Students, found that seventy-eight percent of the high school students surveyed admit to having cheated No one is immune.

So all is lost. We might as well roll over and die. We are all self-centered, irresponsible hypocrites, and society is doomed. Wrong. We may not be perfect. But we can still act responsibly. A high school student from Boston, Razeena Sadiq, proved that even high school students can do the right thing. One cold winter morning when she was walking to school, she noticed that an apartment building was on fire. She was the only person around, so she entered the building herself. She pounded on doors and helped older people to safety. After the firefighters arrived, she went home to get clothing for the fire victims. When she returned, she helped the victims find shelter in the surrounding houses.

Even in our area, great things are being done. In Pekin, a town less than half an hour from where I live, a cat rolled into a lake pinning a person underneath it. Instantly, the nearby people jumped into the lake and together lifted the car and saved the victim's life. Ordinary people can become heroes when they need to be.

All of us come into contact with responsible people from time to time. One cold winter day, my grandfather's car had a flat tire while he was driving. My grandfather was incapable of changing the tire himself, but a state-trooper stopped to help. It would have been wonderful if the trooper had called someone to help my grandfather, but instead, the trooper changed the tire himself. He went above and beyond the acceptable, and took full responsibility for the problem.

In our community, people are acting responsibly too. One such responsible man is Virgil Robinson. Over the last few years, this man has made it his responsibility to see to the rejuvenation of our local cemetery. It is a job that few people want, but which he has given his full attention to.

We all know responsible people. My grandmother has a handicapped card because of her arthritis. This enables her to park at the best places when she goes shopping. She only uses it. however, when her arthritis is really giving her problems. It is the simple little acts like these that show us that responsibility is not completely lost.

Responsibility , then, is still alive. The problem is that it is not being practiced enough. Why? What makes people act responsibly? When people act responsibly, it is because they feel the people or things they are acting responsibly for are worth the personal sacrifice. For instance, Razeena Sadiq valued the people in the burning apartment building enough to consider it worth the personal risk. My grandmother will endure a little pain so that other people who are in more pain can have the closest parking spaces. The only way to increase responsibility, then, is to make people think that there is something worth acting responsible for."
Robert Morris, Delavan High School, Delavan ,Illinois

"My parents lived in Turkey during the late 1970's. Prison was a living hell. No one wanted to be sent there, and if a person did happen to be sent there, he would have done anything to insure he would never go back. The opposite occurs in our country. For instance, Sullivan prison in New York has outdoor televisions installed, so inmates will never miss their favorite television programs while they exercise. At the Massachusetts Correctional Institute there is an annual 'Life's Banquet'. This treats convicted murderers and their guests to catered prime rib dinners. We in this country are once again proving prison is not a place of punishment, rather a place where some inmates are getting better treatment than ever before. How does this show responsibility on the part of the American people? How can we sit back and allow prisoners to have televisions and prime rib dinners when there are school districts in this country that can barely afford proper art supplies and text books? These inmates have committed crimes against society and society should hold them accountable."
Heather Anne Oates, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Part of the problem is that people don't have enough self-respect to accept responsibility for their actions."
Daniel Shane Huffines, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"People in the village of Ridgewood, N.J. were shaken last winter by the death of two teenagers in an automobile accident. Village officials wondered how to prevent another tragedy of that kind. They finally decided to ask parents to permit the police to enter homes where teenagers were holding parties during the absence of the parents.

Early last summer, the Ridgewood Village manager and police chief mailed letters to the parents of teenagers. Permission slips along with the letters gave police the right to enter a house if the police suspected a teen party was taking place with no parents present, parent signing the slips would waive their privacy rights under state law. Out of the few hundred slips that were sent only ten were signed."
Shawna M. Stake, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Personally the problem I see in society is the degradation of ethics and morals in America. People are not being taught what is right and what is wrong. Young people are not being taught that they are responsible for what happens to them and do not realize if they choose the wrong path, they are going to pay for it. Most of this responsibility should fall on the parents. The only problem is some of the parents have no more responsibility than their children."
Heather Anne Oates, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"One of the biggest problems we have as a society is not taking the responsibility to vote. We would rather sit around and complain about the people who get into office. It is our responsibility to get the best qualified politician into office, but if no one cares enough [we will have] irresponsible people doing a poor job."
Clint Lafary, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Students from George Middle School in Portland, Oregon, worried about the water near where many fish live. The children realized when it rains a lot, the sewers overflow and pollute the water around the fish. Students worried about the pollution because their families eat the fish. They then took responsibility by writing the mayor, talking to the community, and even participating in a government study of the problem."
Cody Diekhoff, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"There was a local woman who had three children and supported herself. She was on welfare but didn't depend on it. She used it as a way to help her get by and make a better, stable situation for her and her family till she could get off welfare and support herself. This happened in 1988, and know she successfully owns her own business."
Nicole Lusher, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Christopher Reeves did not sue after an accident leaving him a paraplegic from the shoulders down. He understood that freak acts of nature occur and it does no good to blame anyone. He felt that God had a reason for his accident and maybe if more people look back on their tragedies in this same manner, it would better their acceptance of it. In the interview Reeves said, 'There are some things you can't change or help, you just have to accept.' I believe once society chooses to do this, only then will we see improvement."
Janelle L. Watkins, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"There are many problems with responsibility in America. The citizens are outraged at the destruction of the tropical rain forest, and they don't bat an eye at the violent acts that are happening in their own backyards. There are many solutions to this problem. For one, education is key. People must know what is happening. They cannot be expected to act on things they do not know about. . .Congress needs. . .to know what is happening because they [can enact] laws to [help]. Write to your [representative]. Tell them how you feel and [make suggestions.] Also, don't sit around wondering what you can do. Contact an environmental group and get started All you need to do is get involved with your community. These forests are our responsibility. If we don't protect them, who will?"
Jaimey Harper, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"I see responsibility as the duty we as individuals possess to be held accountable to the things that we know as human beings must be preserved and well taken care of."
Diane Plank, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Teens need to take responsibility for what they do. My definition of responsibility is knowing when to take action, helping others, knowing when you are wrong, fixing your mistakes, learning to do what is right, not stopping until your job is done, and admitting when you are wrong. This list may seen like a lot, but the future starts here."
Rebecca Stone, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"This may be a big surprise, but my next example is Charles Barkley. Many people think his 'I may not be a role model' commercial was a bad message. I think it was a good one. He was telling kids, in his way, to look up to people like teachers and parents and not someone like him just because he can dunk a basketball. So even Charles Barkley, a man known for saying the wrong things, has done the right thing."
Jeffrey E. Moore, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Mo Vaughn, the first baseman for the Boston Red Sox bought a community house for troubled teens. This sets an example that tells kids not to be selfish with their possessions."
Troy Buskirk, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"The responsibility of educating today's teens can't rely solely on the school and parents. The teen's own personal opinions and beliefs should also have a major part in it. Teaching America's teens about sex should not be a subject that we hide from; it should be openly and fairly discussed if the youth of today [are to have] hope for a better tomorrow."
Tim Hill, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"I believe that many problems in our country would be solved if parents would view their children as a joy to have and raise not a burden."
Bobbi Jo Krowlek, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"Responsibility, to me personally, is being mature and knowing that you should do things that are 'right'."
D. Luke Wilson, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois

"The Senate Education Committee [in] North Carolina has approved 3 bills aimed to stop school violence by: a)allowing the school board to expel a student considered a threat to the school, b) Juveniles who are on probation, have to maintain passing grades in at least 4 classes, and c) schools are required to teach nonviolent conflict intervention beginning in kindergarten."
Jolene Zumwalt, Delavan High School, Delavan, Illinois                                                                             

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