Comments triggered by the March 7, 2001 shooting at Santana High School in Santee, California.

"I am
sad about this latest shooting. It's my opinion that young people aren't getting enough
attention, at school or at home.
Bonnie Schmidt, former
special ed teacher, Carmel California)

News of the shooting is too
sad for words. Is the cause a school issue, a family issue, or a problem of our society at
large? I have thought long and hard about
this. I am thinking that there is enough responsibility (blame) to go around. We must all
step up to the plate and do what we can to help children in need.
Phyllis Betts, elementary school principal

"Education
takes place in many areas of a young person's life. It is not confined to formal
schooling. Adult role models, life experiences, peer influences, and the media all play a
part.
"Most
important is a caring relationship with an adult, preferably a parent. An adolescent who
is trying to find who he is, where he fits into the scheme of things, needs guidance. He
needs someone he can trust, someone who will listen to him. Sympathetic understanding and
wise counsel could prevent a tragic outcome such as the recent school shooting. In today's
world such a person is frequently unavailable. If he has no one to whom he can express his
feelings, a young person is apt to find socially unacceptable ways to release his
emotions.
"There
are, unfortunately, many negative influences surrounding young people today. If there is
no positive, caring connection, they will fill the vacuum. There are all kinds of homes
where one can find adolescents leading constructive, successful lives. Rich or poor,
single or two parent families can raise children who will contribute to society. The
key is a close relationship with strong values that are not only taught, but lived on a
daily basis."
Geraldine Watts, former Director of Mae Carden School in Oakland

I was hoping for some
inspiration - words of wisdom or comfort to surface from my contemplation on the events of
the past week - but I've been left numb. All
I can feel is
I have 2 daughters. My older daughter will be entering high school in
a few years and that worries me. I see the
pressure that she deals with - having 2 to 3 hours of homework each day and relating to
school mates who are obviously over stressed and under-loved. I'm very sad that she is missing the carefree
childhood that she deserves. I have to
constantly reassure her that although school is important, it is also very important to
enjoy herself and not be overwhelmed with schoolwork...
I'm talking about a ten-year-old!
My younger daughter is just 8 months
old now and although I'm trying to be optimistic, I can't help but thinking that change
takes effort and time - what will my baby's life be like if we don't do something now!
Parents need to wake up! We are a selfish, self-centered generation. We look great in our BMWs but what good is a new
car when it takes you away from your kids? Our
new houses are great investments, great trophies but what good is a big house when it's
just used for co-habitation with the wife and kids? A
new title is a good measurement of success but what use is striving for that great
promotion if you end up looking back after retirement regretting the time you missed with
your family?
A concerned parent in California

Therein lies the solution--we need to backtrack and think about what education is all about. Teachers need to be both educationally sound as well as compassionate towards all. Teenagers are people with rampant feelings, huge dreams and aspiring hopes. Anyone involved with education has seen kids treat other kids horribly. This is the heart of the problem. Too many kids get pushed aside by parents, friends and teachers--and each one of us deserves a fan club. If we stop the cruel words and take time to notice the hurting teens, we can stop this world from spiraling into a place of hate.
The solution--albeit almost impossible to figure out--must rest in
our basic human instinct to take care of one another. Too many people have their own
agendas . . .period. We need to take care of each other if we truly want to turn
this violence around.
Devra Parker, high school teacher in
Kansas
