Values Forum: Family Programs

Coming of Age Traditions

"In my family, when you turned 13, you earned the right to redecorate your room as you saw fit. It didn't have to be expensive or elaborate: some new pictures or a bedspread, etc. But it was a symbol that you were now thought of as an adult and had the right to decide about what your 'space' should look like; a chance to express your individuality."
Lori Weichenthal, MD Fresno, California

"When the children in my husband's family turned 16, they were honored with the responsibility of researching a deceased ancestor. There are eight children in the family and when the last has completed his assignment the material will be published in book form and distributed to extended family members."
Female, Idaho