Values Forum: Family Programs

Traditions - Weddings

"In the Jewish tradition the groom and the father of the bride are both called up to read the Torah on the Sabbath before the wedding. Traditionally the bride and groom fast on the wedding day. The ceremony itself takes place under a canopy called the huppah which represents the home. The ceremony consists of a series of blessings including a thanks to God for establishing the family and the joy of the wedding festivities. After the first benediction the groom places a ring on the bride's finger saying, "Thou art sanctified unto me with this ring in accordance with the Law of Moses and Israel." At the end of the benedictions, the bridegroom breaks a glass under his foot. This is to remind everyone of the destruction of the Temple and of Jerusalem, an event to remember even on the most joyous occasions. If the family is orthodox, the celebration may continue for an entire week with special blessing for the happiness of the couple recited every evening and concluding with a special feast on the seventh day."
JKS, male, Minneapolis, Minnesota